Cruising may seem to some in the older generations as a lost art.
Thanks to an evolving social climate, and hookup apps like Grindr have sure made it easier.
But that is what technology does. It makes things easier, not necessarily better.
Yes now we can find a guy nearby who meets all our specs with just a few clicks.
There is nowhere near as much satisfaction when it's all handed down to us on a plate, and I can guarantee that by just adding a little bit of extra work to achieve what we desire is much more rewarding in so many ways.
So why not get a bit fitter (an extra reward already) and try some good old cruising the old fashioned way.
I'll share some tips that might help you get on the way so grab some shorts, and don't bother with the underwear....it's more to take off and lets get sweaty.
FIRST THINGS FIRST: TRY AND FIND A GAY FRIENDLY GYM.
If you know a gay gym....great! but sometimes the staff can be extra vigilant and on the lookout for what is termed "Public Indecency", which means you may have a higher chance of getting caught, And I have learnt myself and from friends over the years that most of the hottest and naughtiest sessions seem to happen in smaller lesser popular gyms.
CHANGE AT THE GYM.
Most cruising happens in the locker room. You'll find that most guys don't want to be cruised too hard out on the floor. Cruising and getting cruised is great but remember that some of us also take our gym time very seriously, and if someone starts coming on a bit to strong during a lift, it can be distracting and a little annoying.
You can get naked about three times. Once when changing into your gym clothes, again when you're sweaty and taking them off, and after showering and changing back to your day clothes.
Disrobing many times gives the guys more opportunities to sneak a peek, arouse some interest and the possibility to make a move.
WEAR YOUR USUAL GYM ATTIRE.
It's best not to wear your tightest or shortest shorts. It is much more sexier to wear actual athletic gear. You can still wear clothes that fit and show off your body and personality. Part of what makes Cruising fun is its illicit wordless subtlety so don't be to obvious and try not to look like you're hunting and thirsty. Basically dress for the occasion.
STAND NEXT TO HIM AT THE URINAL.
Close-proximity peeing is definitely one of the oldest tricks in the book and will probably always be one of the best.
When you're standing next to him, glance; give the nod. If there's a divider, don't attempt to peek at his package. Not without his permission. Just let him know that you've noticed him. That's all you can do. That then gives him the go-ahead to glance back at you, or to nod down directing your eyes to what he wants you to see. If you're lucky and he's bold (or if there's no one around) he may turn sideways and show you what he's packing.
DON'T WEAR YOUR HEADPHONES ON THE FLOOR.
When you're on the prowl, it's important to be present and notice people.
Wearing Headphones gives the impression that you want to be left alone.
MAKE EYE CONTACT
Cruising happens in glances: averted, held, direct and passing. There is an art to glancing that can't be taught and mastering that perfect glance takes practice.
Don't hold eye contact for too long unless you're getting signals that he's cruising you back, e.g. a half smile while scanning your body is a pretty good sign.
ASK HIM TO SPOT YOU.
Some of you might think this move is too bold.
I have to disagree.
You're asking him to be your spotter, not your boyfriend. Having a spotter can be useful especially if you want to go up in weight, and it's a great way to get him to look at you up close.
ALWAYS BE COURTEOUS AND POLITE.
Nothing is more unattractive than a dickish dude who doesn't respect gym etiquette. It's an automatic turnoff. Don't leave your dumbbells lying on the floor. Re-rack your weights, and when you're finished, wipe off the equipment. Also don't hog the machines.
LEAVE YOUR PHONE IN YOUR LOCKER.
This makes you more attentive and present (and makes you aware if someone is cruising you). It also stops you from sitting and texting on a machine that someone is waiting to use.
GET IN THE ZONE.
If you're working out hard, you'll look good without trying to. It's real sexy to see someone working out hard. If they're interested, you'll gain a lot more attention working out naturally instead of "performing". You shouldn't let cruising swallow too much of your gym time. An interested guy will appreciate the show and respect that you also take your time there seriously. And if he offers you a nod before heading to the locker room, it may pay to cut your workout short. Sometimes we have to sacrifice the last few minutes of our routine to shower across with that man who's given you a clear signal.
ROAM THE LOCKER ROOM NAKED.
There are few places where it's socially acceptable and legal for men to walk around naked in front of other guys. Take advantage of it!! Walk to and from the showers naked and show off your swinging cock for all too see.
CRACK THAT CURTAIN.
Shower with both ends of the curtain pulled into the middle, or with the curtain open completely (If there's a door you definitely need to leave it ajar or again completely open).
This is where you can truly perform and in most instances is the make-or-break moment. You're both horned up from pumping iron, or killing yourself on cardio, and both hot, sweaty, and throbbing with testosterone. The open curtain or door is a universally recognised signal that you're interested and that you're inviting him to take a look and that you want him to look at you.
DON'T BE NERVOUS.
If he's leaving the curtain open just for you. Look across at his sudsy cock. Take a peek as he bends over to wash his feet. Make sure he knows you're looking. And most importantly look at his face. look in his eyes. Hold the gaze for a second. And Smile. It's disarming and bold and lovely. This is the moment where you both know what's happening.
FOLLOW HIM OUT.
If you're looking at him and he's looking at you, follow him out.
From there boys, you're on your own.
You could be straight into the parking lot and in his car for a quick blowie, to his apartment, or to that dark spot behind the building.
I send you out into the world now as a hunter, so get fit and importantly.